Wednesday, April 15, 2026

Wednesday Hodgepodge


From this Side of the Pond

1. Big week in the US of A...do you do your own taxes? What's something you've found 'taxing' lately? 

Lucky for me, I married an accountant and he handles our taxes.  
~A throwback to our first tax year as parents~

Something I find taxing lately?  I think just simply trying to be a mother of two teenagers.  Actually, one is now eighteen with the attitude that he's an adult and doesn't have to listen to us.  So, I'm trying to figure out the best way to love him and guide him but not be too much, if that makes sense.  My daughter is 14 and she's so loveable and kind but she's been dealing with a lot of anxiety and possibly depression.  We started her in therapy in hopes that it will help guide her through those feelings and get to the source of what is causing it all.  I believe it's more than just being a teenage girl, which is already tough.  It's a challenge but I know just like those days of handling a newborn, a toddler and a child, this is a stage that will pass.  

2. When it comes to travel are you a last minute packer or a lay it all out a week in advance type? Do you struggle to pack light? Share a packing tip that has worked for you. 

I'm not high maintenance so I never feel a need to pack a lot for myself.  Just the essentials.  I'll keep a note of what I need and then pack the day before.  The best advice I can give, is to keep a note of all the things you'll need to bring with you then you can check it off as you pack it.  

3. April is National Grilled Cheese Month. Hmmm...who knew it got its own month? Do you like a grilled cheese sandwich? What ingredient do you add to take yours to the next level? 

Yes, I do love grilled cheese.  I just do a basic butter the bread, add the cheese and some ham and cook.  I might add a little sprinkle of seasoning like Italian seasoning or basil.  

4. There's a well known quote that says-

'A ship in the harbor is safe, but that's not what ships are built for." John A. Shedd  

Is constant growth necessary or do you think it's more important to prioritize stability and peace in your life? 

If we are talking about spiritual growth or mental growth I do feel it is important to keep trying to improve and move forward with learning more and being better.  As far as chasing success, I don't really care too much about that.  I'd rather have my peace.  The only thing I'm chasing after is heaven.  

5. Let's wrap this up with a fun spring this or that-

  • daffodils or tulips - Can I say both?
  • lemonade or iced tea -both again
  • gardening or hiking - gardening for peace and hiking for adventure (love to do both)
  • ladybugs or butterflies  -both 
  • umbrella or raincoat -umbrella
  • floral patterns or polka dots - floral 

6. Insert your own random thought here. 

I am grateful that the warm weather is here in my part of the country.  It's actually going to be in the 80's today and possibly up to the 90's tomorrow.  July weather in April but I love, love, love it!  


Thank you, Joyce!

4 comments:

  1. Jealous of the warmth, current weather here in UK is 55F (I had to Google the conversion).

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  2. Ohh! Being married to an accountant is handy when it comes to doing your taxes.
    My girls are 23 and 18 and sometimes their attitude stinks especially when they say they are adults. Ugh! Sending love and hugs, my youngest has been through anxiety and depression and is just coming out the other side now. You are doing the best for her getting help with the therapy. Hang on in there.

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  3. There are a few today who married accountants, which is certainly helpful this time of year : ) I love the onesie! And I'm sorry your daughter is struggling and am glad you're tuned in and looking for ways to help. In my own life and as a parent those early teen years were so much more challenging than the later ones. Take care.

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  4. That is one cute tax deduction! Cute shirt! I hope your daughter can find some help with the therapy...and that all of you have patience (and wisdom) through these tough years. You're a good mom...and sure you will be a huge help to both of the kids as they transition into adults!

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